I want to thank Jeff Bennett for all the time,
effort and hard work he has done to have the War Dog
memorial completed. We now have a place to visit and
muse about our time with our dogs. It is more stunning
than I ever imagined. Laura and Mo, you did a terrific
job of getting the many things done so it would be such
a success. To Tom Mitchell for the entire long days and
nights you spent working out the many details for this
monument and dedication.
The monument has a power and depth that I
could never dreamed of. When I checked into the motel
in Riverside I ran into Laura Benge. She asked if I had
seen it yet and I told her no. She said, "Charlie, don't
go until tomorrow. You just need to wait until it's unveiled
to get the full impact." On her advice I did just that.
I visited with some other handlers in my room, and you
could hear the rain as we talked about our wonderful
dogs in Vietnam. My son Chris was getting a real education
listening to us talk while he took some pictures of us.
Later that night, I walked out into the motel
parking lot in the rain and remembered how wet Wolf and
I always were in the Nam. Wolf seemed to work harder
in the pounding rain trying to distinguish the sounds
of the enemy from the rain hitting the jungle foliage,
it was so noisy. I thought to myself, I hope it pours
tomorrow at the dedication. What better way to honor
and say good bye to Wolf than in the conditions he and
I worked so well together in as a team?
During that sleepless night I though about
how patient Wolf had been with me when I was his new
handler. I was the new guy and he was the seasoned
Veteran in that forgotten land. Wolf worked so hard to
teach me what he was trained to do. I stumbled along
trying not to let him down. But when I screwed up and
missed an alert, he would show me again until I caught
on. Monday morning my son Chris, my friend Seth Hart
whom I haven't seen for 30 years, and myself went to
IHOP for breakfast. I felt numb. Knowing in a few hours
I would see the final resting-place for Wolf. He had
been my best friend, brother, teacher and my lifesaving
companion in Vietnam. He was the reason so many others,
and especially myself, were alive today.
At the dedication I tried to hold back the
tears as I could tell many others were also trying to
do. Forget the Macho stuff -- my heart just cried
out for all of our lost dogs, as only dog handlers would
truly understand and feel the terrible loss. As I approached
the memorial and laid the rose on the handler's arm,
I ran my hand across the face and nose of the dog. It
felt so real to the touch. I reached up a little more
and petted under the ears of the dog, just like Wolf
had liked. I swear he winked at me just like Wolf used
to do when he was telling me that everything was OK.
It was like Wolf was saying Thank You for remembering
me. No way to stop the tears... and I didn't even
try. Every person I looked at was in tears and felt the
same way. A stinking war 30 years ago had brought us
all together, in a land 10,000 miles away, and now the
same war had us all together in our free country of America
to honor our dogs.
A very special thanks to all the people involved
with the memorial for making a dream come true. All of
you have done a terrific job with your efforts in this.
Thanks to my good friend Jim Ower. Jim has felt the pain
and kept it all inside of him up until last year when
he saw the War Dogs movie on TV. We got together soon
after that and have spent time trying to make each other
feel better. Now we can feel a sense of ease, having
a memorial we can go and pay our respects to in honor
of "Wolf" and "Sam".
A extra special thanks to all the Law Enforcement
agencies that came from different states to make our
day a great one, and to say the "Welcome Home" to us
vets, because we never got that welcome when we came
home. These men and women didn't have to take their time
to do this--it was all for free--and they all did it
to help us get through this tough time. My good friend
Eric Rimat, of the Santa Ana K-9 Police Department, is
the person who put this together? He spent endless hours,
days and weeks away from his family getting every last
detail in place for this event. Eric knows the pain of
loosing his K-9 partner. In the past Eric was shot while
on the job, as was his dog "Indy". Eric almost died from
his wounds and took quite a long time to recover. "Indy"
didn't recover; he died two weeks later. Thank you, Eric.
Charlie Cargo & "Wolf" 48th Scout Dog Platoon Vietnam
1970-1971.